Here are some interesting marriage stories.
The institution of marriage continues to evolve. For this reason marriage traditions have continued to change with time. The old traditions have been dramatically changed by the onset of modernization. The first marriage ever recorded was between Adam and Eve. Their union was the idea of God and he oversaw it. For this reason, a lot if importance has been placed on marriage until today. However low that people may think of marriage, they still recognize it as a holy institution which needs commitment and dedication. In the primitive ages, the most common marriage tradition was to steal a bride from a particular tribe during warfare. This must have been a very adventurous way to start a life long commitment. As people civilized, brides were no longer stolen but rather were contracted. This means that brides were given out after a certain agreement by the parents and the people marrying. This constituted an arranged marriage and sometimes a forced marriage. As time went on, this paved way to dowry. It was demanded by parents for raising the bride. It later evolved and today, it is viewed as a token of appreciation which is given to the parents of the bride.
Marriage traditions are determined by certain factors which include religion and culture. Different cultures of the world have their very own marriage traditions. For example in India, dowry was paid to the family of the groom and not the bride. This tradition is very much rooted and there are many reasons for this. Across all cultures, people recognize or put a lot of emphasis on marriage. It is a societal event which is marked in color and fun fare. According to practiced traditions, marriage was prepared months prior to the date. This was mainly to make sure that everything went fine. In today's modern world, planning a marriage can be done faster due to the many resources available to us. Many people hold private weddings where they just invite close family members. Therefore, the communal wedding tradition has been seen to be fading away. During marriage, a groom usually has a best man. This tradition was inspired by the primitive practices in regard to marriage. When a girl was stolen to become a bride, the warrior had a partner who would watch over his back.
This was where the idea of best man came from. It later inspired the idea of a best maid. Going back to marriage traditions can prove to be very exciting. Marriage traditions in Africa were very different from those in Asia. It is this diversity that has made the topic quite something. Weddings and marriage still remain something special; something worth celebrating. If you are holding your wedding, it will not hurt to go back in history and, find out some of the traditions of your people. Adding one or two things will ensure that you keep alive some of the most interesting traditions ever crafted. It is all about making marriage interesting and upholding its glory
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